Saturday, June 9, 2012

Personality Development-part-II- HUMAN RELATIONS


Human body is composed of different links and joints. Like that life is a composition of different links In order to hold these links one should maintain proper human relations.

  • Should love the person though he is enemy
  • Remember that a man’s name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in my language
  • Begin with praise and honest appreciation
  • Call attention top peoples mistakes indirectly
  • Talk about your own mistakes before critising the other persons
  • Praise the slightest improvement and praise very important
  • Use encouragement . Make the fault seen easy to correct.
  • Make other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.
  • How you face criticism and grow rich
  •  Remember that unjust criticism is often disguised compliment
  • Do very best you can
  • Analyse your own mistakes and criticize yourself
  • Learn to realize at your work
  • Apply the following for good working habbits
  • Clear all the problems of your desk except those relating to the immediate problems
  • Do the things in order of their importance
  • When you have a problem solve it then and there , if you have the necessary faults to make a decision.
  • Learn to organiz , deputise and supervise
  • Put enthusiasm into your work
  • Don’t worry about insomnia

  • Don’t criticize ,condemn ,complain
  • Give honest, sincere appreciation
  • Arouse in the other person an eager want
  • Become genuinely interested in other people
  • Remember that a man’s name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in my language
  • Smile
  • Be a good listener, encourage other to talk about them selves
  • Talk in terms of other man’s interest
  • Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely
  • Know the opposite person’s difficulties
  • Always use excuse me , sorry thank you
  • If you are talking some one’s possession get permission.
  • News paper need , If any body is taking food without taking glass then get the glass that person
  • Speak indirectly (QP ) mirror purchase
  • Live in good environment
  • If you are not habituated to take Tea you should take in the group
  • Avod misunderstanding , think with patience (Best hospital)
  • There are officers , brothers who always suppress
  • If some body speaks wrong , donot argue
  • Don’t say vaadu , veedu at the back
  • MANISHE , political portion, religion
  • There is attraction between + ve and – ve to be far one should indulge busily in his activity or perform Meditation
  • If a person tells something say ‘A’ jocks or not from your interest listen and smile adjust your self.
  • Bad wishes – Girl/father/teacher.
  • Buy a train pass
  • Report to concern person only (Driver)
  • Report the things prior (invalid Rupee)
  • If a person is suffering show your compassion
Pretend for other person’s satisfaction  

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